Seems to me a 3 year old would know this stuff, though
here is the basic data on kitchen feng shui:
There should be a lot of food in the kitchen, as it increases
the positive chi around your home.
The kitchen should be roomy and well-lit.
Finally, the stove is as important as the front door, as
you would starve or be imprisoned if your house lacked either of these elements.
Therefore these two elements are a good base to begin with
if you want to Feng Shui up your home.